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What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

10.06.2025 12:26

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

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92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

Is having white skin really that attractive?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

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12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

What are the beliefs of those who think climate change is a conspiracy theory? What do they predict will happen if we do not address it?

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

Why are white guys the top consumers of interracial porn? What's the rationale behind this phenomenon?

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

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Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

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23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

What are some things you would change about Avatar: The Last Airbender if you were to redo the series?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

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*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

How does growing up in chaos affect a child as they become an adult?

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

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(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

Would you read them together?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

Family Relation Age Play

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

39~ What are your love languages?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

Any that are a turn off?

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

Please share Did you stop?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

If you win, what will you make them do?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

52~ What are your hobbies?

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

*** Questions About Me ***

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

Do you think this brought you closer together?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

If yes, what?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

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If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

*** Random Questions ***

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

Any that are a turn off?

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

The Ice Breaker Questions

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

How old are you? Male or Female?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

Nothing too Serious

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

What is your favorite position? Why?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

29- How superstitious are you?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…